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Ask youth how shows compare to real life; what they think about "sex sells" commercials; or why movies are rated.
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Talk with, not at, your child.
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Since youth can use advanced reasoning, and understand long term consequences, "just say no" and ..."because I said so" are no longer effective.
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But point out that how they act on their feelings can have life long consequences.
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A single talk is ineffective.
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such as: "That's a good question"....."I remember when I felt the same way"....."what do you think about that".
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If you are uncomfortable, say so! Expressing your feelings makes talking easier.
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